Happy Father's Day!
Both of my children are adults now. It's strange to consider them fully-functioning autonomous adults – because I remember their childhood like it was yesterday (like worrying whether the soft spot on their heads would ever fill in and harden up, or if they'd ever stop sleeping with a nightlight).
Today, they're men doing great things, and I get to be proud of them. I also get to be proud of my role in their growth and proud of passing down the wisdom of my dad, and his father, and the rest who came before me.
It has been 20 years since my father died ... Crazy how time flies! He was my best friend and an amazing mentor. His vision for what I could become helped shape and inform my goals, my accomplishments, and yes, me.
For example, after winning the State Championship in the shot put, my dad came down from the stands onto the field. He hugged me and told me that he knew I could do it. Then, he looked deeply into my eyes and asked whether I was a little disappointed? "Disappointed?" I asked. "But, Dad, I won." He looked at me and said, "Winning is great ... but you didn't throw a personal best." He was proud, and he loved me. He recognized that winning was important ... but he wanted to remind me that the other throwers weren't my real competition.
In life, to be and do your best, the competition is really with yourself; and we both knew I could do better.
My Dad believed in setting high standards. He taught me that most people's lives are defined by their minimum standards. Why? Because once those standards get met, it is easy to get distracted and complacent.
One of his favorite sayings was, "The difference between good and great is infinitesimal." This applies to many things. For example, people who are good take advantage of opportunities; people who are great create them.
As time goes on, I recognize how much of my Dad is in me. And, likewise, how much his father was a part of him ... and how parts of all of us have somehow become a part of my children.
Me, my dad, and grandfather
My Impact on My Children
I hope I've imparted many important lessons to my children - but one of the most impactful lessons was teaching them to enjoy reading.
Some parents try to limit the amount of time their kids spend watching TV or playing video games. I tried something different. Instead, my kids earned their games by reading books. And, they also received more books in the process.
Here's how it worked.
When they finished a book, it was their right, and my obligation, to take them to the bookstore for us to pick up the next book together. Likewise, when they finished ten books, it was their right, and my obligation, to take them to the computer store or game store for them to choose any game they wanted.
When they finished a hundred books, they earned a game system.
There came a point when I wanted one of my sons to start reading grown-up books. He was comfortably reading a particular genre (teen fiction) and didn't want to read the kind of books that I thought he was ready to read (and might enjoy more). So, I created a bonus system that counted a specific book (it might have been a Tom Clancy novel) as three books. I didn't force him; I just let the easier path to a reward "whisper" in his ear what to read. Once he finished that, he never went back to teen fiction.
As they started to get into their teenage years, I needed to up the ante a little. So, 500 books meant they got a laptop of their choice. Both boys cashed in and probably felt like they were taking advantage of their dad.
So, Who Got the Better Bargain?
Three generations of Getsons
Fortunately, in child-rearing, everyone can win. My sons love reading to this day - and have learned that they can accomplish anything they set their minds to... one step at a time.
My sons weren't ever forced to stop watching TV, or read a certain type of book, and always had endless things to keep them entertained.
Win-win.
I like to think each generation becomes better (as people and parents) due to the cumulative experience of the generations that came before them.
We stand on the shoulders of giants.
I look forward to seeing how my (eventual) grandchildren turn out, and how little pieces of me and their great-grandfather show up.
Hope you had a great weekend.
Coronavirus Relief: US Foreign Debt Holders
In response to COVID-19, the U.S. Government has tried numerous things to bolster the economy.
In Q2 alone, the U.S. Treasury borrowed a record $3 trillion dollars for coronavirus relief. It's already the largest-ever borrowing for any fiscal year, and it brings our total above $26 Trillion (over $80,000 per citizen).
The concept of "Debt" can be confusing to a layman. Most people understand what it means to take on debt with a local bank, but it can be harder to understand the role debt plays in global economics. Debt often enables governments to run smoothly. But sometimes you can have too much of a good thing.
Many worry that our "excessive" government debt levels impact economic stability, the strength of our currency, and unemployment. For all the potential, it's certain that our debt with a country affects the relationship. So who "owns" most of our debt?
via HowMuch
Japan holds more U.S. debt than any other country but is followed closely by China. Both countries hold more than 6% of total foreign-held debt.
The chart focuses on foreign debt - but only about 30% of the national debt is held by foreign countries. The rest is held by investors, the Federal Reserve, and the government.
Taking a step back, how does our debt compare on the world stage? An important metric of debt is the debt-to-GDP ratio. It is a key indicator of the sustainability of government finance.
via OECD
Ultimately, we're in the highest bracket, but also have a historically strong GDP to back it. It's also worth noting that lower debt levels don't necessarily translate to safety on a global scale. Yugoslavia had very low government debt until its breakup.
In some ways, it seems like paying-off our debts seems insurmountable. Yet, our economy is reliable so we're allowed to continue borrowing. Debt is also an important part of the economic machine - it can be argued that we wouldn't have money without debt.
While this doesn't mean we can go on borrowing forever, it does mean we have options.
If you want to see an updated, interactive version of the U.S. Debt Clock, just click here. It is worth spending a little time watching the pace the numbers turn.
Actions have consequences.
Something to think about.
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