Last night, at a family dinner, the concept of choosing âthe easy way or the hard wayâ was discussed. The focus was on how, when you keep choosing the easy path, you end up with a harder life, and when you exercise discipline and challenge yourself, life eventually becomes easier.
Life can be hard today or hard tomorrow⌠You get to decide. This reminded me of a bigger discussion weâve had about resilience and grit âŚ
I believe in setting high standards and committing to achieving them. A big part of success is knowing that you can do anything you commit to ... and then all you have to do is honor your commitment and continue to make progress. As long as you donât stop ... the rest takes care of itself.
Said another way, resilience is the ability to recover from or adjust to misfortune or change, whereas grit is the passion and perseverance for long-term goals. Sure, you will encounter errors, injuries, setbacks, competition, bad luck, and other practical realities of life. But, together, resilience and grit make almost anything possible.
The bottom line is that if you want success of any kind, you have to be comfortable being uncomfortable.
When I was in high school, I was a state champion shot-putter. The first time I got that title was during my junior year. After winning, I watched my dad run down from the stands. I figured he was coming down to celebrate. Instead, he looked deeply into my eyes and asked whether I was disappointed. I replied: âBut Dad, I won!â He nodded and said he knew â but reminded me that I did not throw a personal best that day. He recognized that winning was important too ... Then he reminded me that the other throwers were not the real competition.
Going into spring of my senior year, I had a multi-season undefeated streak. However, I tore a tendon in my throwing hand at the end of the indoor track season at Nationals. Fast forward to the first meet of the outdoor season ... and I was on the sidelines with a cast on my hand. A local reporter approached me and asked how it felt to lose my unbeaten streak. I was confused. I wasnât losing ... I just wasnât competing.
But, the concept gnawed at me.
Ultimately, I cut the cast off my hand and tried unsuccessfully to wrap it tight enough that it didnât hurt. When that didnât work, I slammed my hand against the floor until it was numb ... I threw once and managed to win. It got easier from there, and I ended the year undefeated.
I think part of it is in my DNA. My father and grandfather were both athletes. My dad played football at Temple University (on the same team as Bill Cosby). He thought he would continue playing with the Philadelphia Eagles, but his career was cut short by a car accident before tryouts. And my grandfather was a professional wrestler called the Green Hornet,
Here is a picture of us together.
Three Generations of Getsons
My youngest son, Zach (who co-writes the weekly commentary with me), was just selected to represent the USA in rugby in the Maccabiah Games this July. It was his third â and probably final time â selected. He still hasn't hung up his cleats after 3 ACL surgeries, a recently broken face, a lacerated spleen, and countless other injuries. Time flies while you are growing old and moving slower.

I continue to watch him get better at the game, despite adversity and what I like to call a âburst of slownessâ. He gets that from me ⌠I was also deceptively slow throughout my athletic career.
Heâs currently raising money for his trip. If youâd like to support his journey to represent the USA, you can learn more and do so here. Or, if you want it to be tax-deductible, you can support his team as a whole here.
Despite our familyâs relative âaccoladesâ in sports, weâre not the most athletic people.
My dad used to joke that our people were meant to own the teams, not play for them.
So, despite the lack of raw athleticism, what drives us to success? I believe the answer is mindset.
The Secret To Success
Your mindset is a set of beliefs that shape how you make sense of the world and yourself. It influences how you think, feel, and behave in any given situation.
My family jokes that my first complete sentence was, âItâs my way, and youâre in it.â Meanwhile, I also believe that âthe game isnât over until I win.â Combine those beliefs ... and it explains why my feet would still be moving toward my goals even if you shot me in the head.
Likewise, my son has continued to reach new heights in rugby because heâs stayed committed and hard-working long after most of his more athletic peers gave up.
Life is not just a sprint; itâs a marathon (that requires you to sprint intermittently more often than you want or are comfortable doing).
How long can you put more effort in ⌠and how many times can you fail without giving up? The answer is as long as you choose!
The habits and lessons of resilience and grit serve well in sports, business, and life.
Too many give up right before they win.
Frankly, too many people stop at the beginning. But you will likely suck at something before you are okay at it. Likewise, you have to be okay before you can be good. Then you have to be good before you can be great!
It takes time and energy to separate yourself from the pack.
My father taught me that most peopleâs lives are defined by their minimum standards. Why? Because once those standards get met, it is easy to get distracted by other things and how to meet the minimum standards for them as well.
Here is something else worth sharing; it was one of his favorite sayings. âThe difference between good and great is infinitesimal.â People who are good take advantage of opportunities; people who are great create them.
The secret to âbetterâ is to set higher standards and commit to achieving them.
It is really quite simple.
- Set big goals and high standards
- Plan how to get there
- Never stop moving
- Never give up
If you follow those rules, itâs hard not to succeed.
How Are You Feeling About The Tariffs?
Trump announced his reciprocal tariffs this week, and the world went into an uproar and the market into a tailspin. As an immediate result, JP Morgan switched its economic prediction from "Solid Growth" to "Recession Risk"
My take: Actions Have Consequences. More importantly, we don't know all the actions ... and we certainly haven't recognized all the consequences. This is the beginning of something bigger than it seems, and many of the outcomes are beyond our current expectations or comprehension.
Sure, we saw some fundamental shifts last week ... but know that we are in for more.
The moves were big and fast enough that most people I know haven't had the time or brain cells to ponder things long and deep enough to form a well-reasoned opinion.
The only thing I "know" is that I expect more volatility and big moves.
With that in mind, here are some charts to help keep you informed as the consequences unfold.
Chart #1 - Global Stock Market Returns in Q1 of 2025
via visualcapitalist
Chart #2 - Trump's Reciprocal Tariffs on Major Nations
via visualcapitalist
Chart #3 - Tariff Shock Wipes $5.3 Trillion Off S&P 500: Index Falls 10.5% in Two Days
via visualcapitalist
Looking at the first chart, it's clear that prior to this announcement, there was a U.S. sell-off, perhaps caused by concerns about inflation and slower GDP growth. As a result, more investment was moving toward Chinese and European stocks.
After Trump's announcement, many things happened, including a joint response from China, Japan, and Korea - something I never thought I'd see. Also, many internet netizens started to plug questions into AI LLMs and receive similar results as Trump's tariffs. Contrary to a more complex equation, it appeared as if the tariff rates were calculated by dividing the deficit and imports of a country. Ultimately, this math was confirmed by the White House Deputy Press Secretary, Kush Desai.
It will be interesting to see what is walked back and what is doubled down on over the next few weeks.
Do you have faith? Do you have an opinion? I'd love to hear it!
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